As you are pitching your idea, the croc brain of the person sitting across from you isn’t “listening” and thinking, “Hmmm, is this a good deal or not?” Its reaction to your pitch basically goes like this: “Since this is not an emergency, how can I ignore this or spend the least amount of time possible on it?”
Pitch Anything, by Oren Klaff, teaches us that our brains are hardwired to be poor at pitching our ideas, and equally poor at receiving them. The key, according to his science, is to make our pitches novel in some way, so that our messages get through. But before even getting to the pitch, one must first "own the frame" - a frame being a perspective that each side brings to a social encounter. Only one frame can win when frames collide, and the stronger frame always absorbs the weaker frame. The winning frame governs the social interaction.
We have our highly evolved neocortex, which is full of details and abstract concepts, trying to persuade the crocodile brain, which is afraid of almost everything and needs very simple, clear, direct, and nonthreatening ideas to decide in our favor.
The harsh but true reality is that the croc brain— the source of your target’s first reaction to your pitch— is: